And those steps right now are furniture and a car! Who wants to buy a car or a couch? I am trying to become unencumbered before we traipse across the world. It has been decided we will leave San Diego in late January and spend February in New Hampshire. This will be Bulent’s chance to meet my whole family, a legion of people. Through we have been dating four years, he has not met most of my family. There have been many reasons, but now it will happen. I think that my family believes that he does not really exist, as few of them have every seen physical evidence. To them he is Bigfoot.